Sunday, October 19, 2008

Brady Drama



Mr. Brady decided to add a little more excitement to our lives on Thursday. Grammie Lou and I made our first trip to the ER, twice. Don't freak out, he is fine now. Brady was in acute respiratory distress and was having a few issues breathing. After a breathing treatment and a pretty invasive "suction" he was breathing normally again. I should say we all began breathing again. He showed major improvement and we were discharged with a neat machine called a nebulizer, with turtle mask and all. I did mention we went to the ER twice. After a few hours at home Brady returned to his old tricks and we were right back to where we started. We were off to the ER again. It had been such a short amount of time even the same nurses and doctors were on duty. This time we didn't get to make the trip home, instead they booked us a room at Hotel Childrens. Brady cozied in as all the nurses fused over his stylish hair do and killer good looks.

Thursday night was a bit rough, but by Friday he was making major improvements. We were finally sent home late Saturday afternoon with a stack of prescriptions and well wishes.
So here are the stats: Brady has Tracheal Malaysia, which is a fancy medical term for small floppy airways. This is common in babies with Down Syndrome. What caused this whole episode was the common cold. That little cold caused congestion, which then caused his tubes to clog up and therefore preventing easy breathing. He also has a case of bronchialitis compounding his breathing problems. And to top things off when he breathes he retracts and has strider, both which sound and look awful. I'm sure many of you have heard this yourselves.

The lesson: We are going to be as proactive and preventative as possible. The cold and flu season will be rough on Brady so we have enlisted a strict hand washing policy and minimal holding by people. So please don't be offended if we keep him to ourselves for a little while. We're not quite to the "baby in a bubble" stage, but a couple more trips to the ER might put us over the edge.
The good news: Brady will grow out of this...eventually.

The bad news: Brady will be sick an awful lot in the next year. He also has to have a scope of his "tubes" and bronchials in the next 10 days. Fortunately, they will sedate him for this procedure and he should have minimal discomfort. The doctors want to make sure that nothing is impeding his airways. He is also scheduled for a swallow study to decipher some reflux issues. Finally, he has a sleep study on the 30th. They have ruled out Apnea, but he does have some disruptions in his sleep pattern and they want to make sure they are not life threatening.

Jeff and I are doing fine. Its a bit stressful, but we feel strong overall. We have accepted what the future holds for our little guy and will continue to do the very best for Brady. Amazingly enough the last 3 months have made Jeff and I even closer and stronger than ever. They say babies with Down Syndrome bring more love and joy to their families and they are correct. Its amazing how bright his smile can be when we haven't seen it for a couple of days.

A big thanks to Grammie Lou for saving our little guy. Without you I think we would have all lost it!

6 comments:

Ryan said...

Stay strong friends. Brady is a champ.

hannah eileen said...

Good luck with every thing you two. If you ever need a pan of brownies to make the day a little easier, just let me know!

Anonymous said...

I hadn't read the blog for a few days.....but Grammie Lou just called me. What a brave little trooper Brady is, and he has the very best parents. It is a blessing Linda can be there for you at a moments notice! I hope you are able to grab some rest. Love,Kathy

Hailee said...

I'm so thankful that he is doing better. Even though I don't get to spend much time with him, I think Brady is a blessing in all our lives. He's lucky to have strong parents like you. Love you.

Anonymous said...

What an amazing little guy Brady is, he gets it from his parents!! Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Ilia A Cruz said...

Jen and Jeff, children with Special Needs are given to Special Couples. They do bring out the best in us, is not always easy but the joy they bring to a family is
breath taking. For us it has been a long journey and it continues...
They teach you so much about life, love, and forgiveness. You have just started but you are both great parents and strong together!
I'm so happy that Amelis and Ryan have you as friends..and as role models.
Ilia